elegant aspirations

SEPTEMBER 2020

PHOENIX OR ASHES

FIDING STRENGTH IN ADVERSITY

By Caroline Phipps

During the height of the Blitz in World War II, German planes bombed London for 57 consecutive days and nights. In the largest raid, a total of 711 tons of high explosives and incendiaries were dropped, resulting in the deaths of 1,436 civilians and many injuries. The authorities were understandably concerned about the psychological health of the population, fearing that they would succumb to misery and despair in the face of such darkness and devastation. However, studies showed the opposite: overall mental health improved, and the resolve to endure strengthened. This unexpected development became a significant advantage that Prime Minister Winston Churchill skillfully utilized to successfully navigate the remainder of the war.

History repeatedly demonstrates that challenging times can bring out the best in the human spirit. Conversely, when times are good, we often become complacent. We take our blessings for granted, forget to express gratitude for our good fortune, show less empathy for those who are fortunate, and neglect our inner lives. It often takes a life-altering event to awaken us from this complacency and encourage us to shine.

Today, we find ourselves in a different but still alarming and uncomfortable period of adversity, individually and collectively, as a nation and a world. While we observe courageous individuals transforming adversity into something positive by serving others, we also see how easy it is to attempt to dodge the inevitable pain that adversity brings.

We are inventive beings and have created countless ways to avoid confronting the harsh realities of today's world. Entire industries, ranging from pharmaceuticals to technology and entertainment, have sprung up around this concept.

Of course, enjoying a glass of wine or binge-watching the latest Netflix series is not inherently bad. However, when we rely too heavily on these avoidance techniques, we miss out onunities for growth and progress. Ultimately, we may never know if we can successfully navigate challenges.

We compromise our resilience by denying ourselves the chance to strengthen, grow, and progress through adversity. As we weaken, we become vulnerable to circumstances, metaphorically surrendering to the flames of our difficulties. Consequently, the prospect of facing hard times becomes increasingly daunting, and our avoidance mechanisms become more entrenched.

We must never underestimate the power and resilience of the human spirit. We can trust that we are stronger and more adaptable than we can imagine, but only if we allow ourselves the opportunity to prove it. These are challenging days, but we have a choice: we can remain stuck amid the ashes, never realizing our full potential, or we can strength from our challenges, reinvent ourselves, and rise like a resilient phoenix.